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How should I react about this with my parents fighting? please help its serious?

Published by admin on October 31, 2010

Well my dad lives in Australia while my brother goes to college and sister is in vegas…Me and my mom live in Co. My parents were about to go into a divorce but they tried again while he was down here for two weeks and every night they would "do" it but he was cheating on her with someone and she found out and they fight and hit eachother like crazy my sister is leaving to Vegas tomarrow and its just going to be them and me I’m only 13 I cant do anything if something wrong goes on

Hi well make ur parents aware that it disturbs u and u had to listen to them "at it" and fighting is making u so anxious and depressed and u feel like cutting yourself (act like u will ok) and see if that brings them to some sensible outcome.

Sadly u can’t help them when one or other is cheating so best u just act like a "drama queen" see if that will make them stop OK? ♥

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Comments (9)
  1. VieleFragen Said,

    Contact a close friend, an aunt or an uncle or grandparent, a teacher, or if none of the above are available, the police. If your parents are hitting each other, this could be potentially dangerous for you, too. I am only thirteen too, and have had my bestie go through that too.
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  2. Unknown guy Said,

    There is not much you can do.. Just tell the don’t fight around you.
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  3. Dossa Said,

    Call 911 if it gets that serious, it shouldn’t happen, its not right, especially with you there watching and hearing all of it
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  4. Mimi Kim Said,

    one day if they are fighting go into the room and tell them how you feel when you see them fight and it’s ok if you cry a little that will just make they feel more guilty and they will either fight some more or they will make up
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  5. Erin Said,

    Ask your guidance counselor at school, that what they are their for. To help you get through hard time, to give you advice. I know you probably dont want to, but you need to be asking an adult close to you that you trust, not people on the internet. this something that will take time to fix, thats why should talk to a friends parent you trust, or a teacher. You are not in a good situation, something needs fixing.
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  6. Yvonne S Said,

    just get 911
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  7. Candice™ Said,

    Hi well make ur parents aware that it disturbs u and u had to listen to them "at it" and fighting is making u so anxious and depressed and u feel like cutting yourself (act like u will ok) and see if that brings them to some sensible outcome.

    Sadly u can’t help them when one or other is cheating so best u just act like a "drama queen" see if that will make them stop OK? ♥
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  8. PandaEyes Said,

    Ew why the f*ck aren’t your parents discreet about having sex? I suggest you embarrass them. Call them perverted freaks for allowing you to hear it. In all likelihood they won’t end up hurting each other seriously. My parents fight like this and its horrible to watch but usually it isn’t as bad as it looks.
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  9. poetrynut Said,

    its realy too bad when adults cant act at least a little grown up in front of their own children-but for you to seek out help is realy brave for you and far more grown up than they are behaving….seriously call 911 -if you see them so out of control….find a friend neighbor-complete stranger off the street if you need to….find a phone or cell phone to dial 911 if you need to…your too young to be trying to deal with by yourself….they need grown up intervention….also how old is your sister -is she someone who can help you?
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